choose pleasure,
shamelessly
sexological bodywork and pleasure coaching
An invitation
Are you ready to welcome more pleasure into your life?
Do you want to feel more in your body?
Would you like to explore intentional, mindful self-pleasure?
Is shame or guilt preventing you from fully expressing yourself and experiencing the joy you deserve?
I invite you to discover your sexuality, desires, and fantasies in a safe, non-judgmental space rooted in radical acceptance and self-love.
Join me on this journey of self-exploration and empowerment.
About me
I am a sexological bodyworker and pleasure coach.
I can assist you in reconnecting with your body, releasing shame, and reclaiming as well as exploring pleasure.
Some of the things we can work on
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Sexological bodywork and embodiment
Would you like to feel more connected to your body, to practise listening to what you truly want and to intentionally seek it?
Would you like to explore new sensations, discover unfamiliar areas, or overcome fears around parts of your body?
Or perhaps you’d like to use our safe space to gently access challenging emotions that may be stored in parts of your body, potentially blocking your direct routes to pleasure?
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Self-pleasure coaching (especially for men)
“Change the way you masturbate, change your life” says Body Electric and Orgasmic Yoga founder Joseph Kramer.
Explore intentional and mindful masturbation; experience different types of orgasms; try a variety of sex toys and notice how they feel; learn techniques to circulate erotic energy — and so much more.
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Shame, guilt, and erotic fantasies
Shame and guilt inhibit our capacity for pleasure. Unconscious beliefs around what is ‘appropriate’ — along with fear of judgment from ourselves and others — limit what we feel is possible for us as sexual beings.
Erotic fantasies offer a way for our unconscious mind to counteract these feelings of shame and guilt. By exploring them, we can better understand and overcome these barriers, opening ourselves to deeper, more authentic pleasure. -
Sexual intimacy for couples
Blockages that limit our capacity to enjoy our bodies can deeply affect sexual intimacy within our relationships. You may want to work on these aspects individually, or you may might choose to explore them together with your partner.
Sex and intimacy coaching helps couples discover what may be holding back their sexual expression and fulfilment. I can guide you in playfully exploring new ways of connecting and being intimate with each other.
“Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage.”
— Anaïs Nin
My approach
In our sessions, I will guide you to explore topics and issues from multiple angles, using a variety of practices to help you better understand yourself, your body, and your somatic and emotional responses.
Each session is co-created with you, shaped by your desires, needs, and present feelings. Sessions may be talk-based, practice-based, or a combination of both. We begin each session by setting intentions and agreeing on a focus, ensuring our work together is aligned with your goals and attuned to where you are in the moment.
Offering you a safe and non-judgmental space to relax, explore, enjoy
I see clients in London, either at The Practice Rooms, near King’s Cross station, or in a dedicated therapy space at my own address in Highgate.
If it makes you feel more comfortable, I can also come and see you in the extra-safety of your own address.
Although it is generally not ideal, for some types of work, meeting remotely might also be an option.
I am always happy to try out different arrangements with the aim of making you feel safer and freer to express yourself.
“Meeting Carlo has been an absolute blessing. I was struggling with intimacy and I was not feeling very confident with and in my body. Carlo showed me that a different approach to sexuality and intimacy is possible and desirable.
I am discovering how crucial being patient and slow is, I am experiencing that fears and shame are something to pass through to feel how great and beautiful our body and our intimacy is.”
— ALESSANDRO